Is your dating profile a shiny, well-polished car with no fuel — great to look at but going nowhere? You’re definitely not alone if you’re struggling to turn profile views into meaningful connections.

I suspect the problem is that these kinds of profiles answer questions like: “Who are you?”, “What do you do?”, “What do you like?”

But that’s not what makes a profile effective. A great dating profile answers a different question: “What is it like to date you?”